the dni criteria

the 'basic' dni's racist, anti-black , against blm, all/blue lives matter, nazi, alt-right, antisemitic, islamophobic, xenophobic, map or 'minor attracted person'(a pedophile-basically), fujoshi/fundashi , fetishize mlm relationships/pairings/etc, romanticize abuse or mental illnesses, ableist (this includes people who are against self diagnosis too!), lgbtphobic (lesbophobic, homophobic, biphobic, panphobic, transphobic, exclusionist, etc), use slurs you can't reclaim believe in/are a bi/pan lesbian believe fiction doesn't affect reality or you're pro-ship/anti-anti

dnf if you're (transphobic)
against xenogenders, neopronouns, against lesbians who use pronouns that aren't she/her the same applies for gay men who use pronouns that aren't he/him, against any sort of non-binary identity, make fun of the way people identify? it's not only plain rude but also extremely transphobic, trans-exclusionary, radical feminist or any branch of feminism that excludes trans women or claim that trans women are not women or that feminism fights for trans men too
the feminism you are part of has a transphobic community or ideals, and you don't actively call it out/do anything against it, this applies to you too, people who are 'neutral' about transmisogyny and transphobia are transphobic as well
do not have a problem interacting/being friends with people who are transphobic, it's harmful and if you can be okay with people who refuse to treat trans people like people, then this, as well, applies for you

dni if you believe (fiction ≠ reality)
joke about or justify incest in any form, including families who aren't related by blood (step-siblings, adopted family, etc)
joke about or justify pedophilia in any form
justify or participate in the sexualization of minors
justify abusive or unhealthy relationships